A view of life through the eyes of a person who is slowly losing their mind.

Friday, October 14, 2005

okay alright already

ve erased all the posts with the evil comments. Let's all be adults now. I have one thing left to say and I can say it because it's my blog.
Tiffany as far as you not "bending over backwards for friends because of your career." I remember when you had no one but your family. I took you out whenever possible and introduced you to my friends. Of which I might add that you never seemed to really like anyway. But I did, and we all became a part of eachothers worlds. Believe it or not, you did become friends with my friends, and some of them thought so too. Don't tell me it's not just as easy for you to pick up a phone and call any of these people just to see how they are doing. Every time I have seen you in the past few months I was always sure to let you know what my plans were for the night or weekend, and invited you and Vinny along. I do although recall that one time at my cookout but I will not go there. Never once have you called to invite me along on any of your adventures. Hell in the past few months at your apt. you never even invited me upstairs. If spending time with some one doesn't make up a big part of a friendship then please tell me what does.
I know you guys are moving, and all of us know that that will be just that. You'll fade away and forget the people that were there for you. But I do want you to close your eyes for a second....picture your wedding day, or Christmas 2009, or having a baby (thought you'd get a laugh out of that)...think about the friends that you want to share those events with. Do you see me, or Kelly, or George, or Mel, or Alan, or even your own brother in any of this. The people we choose to share these memories with are the ones that I call friends. What defines a friend to you?
A friend to me...simply put...is some one who is never too busy to stop and ask another how they are.


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